A Parent’s Guide : Help Your Teen Break Free from Negative influences

If you are a teen-parent, have you ever felt guilty about breaking up your child’s friendship or relationship?🙄
Well, you are not alone!

Here are a few ways to help your teen break away from the so called “Bad Company”

1. Have an open communication:

Start by asking them how important that particular friend is. You can do this by asking open-ended questions to understand their perspective and feelings about these friends. Try to be non-judgmental. Share your concerns calmly, focusing on behaviors and actions rather than attacking their friends personally.

2. Strengthen your bond with your teen:

All of a sudden asking your child to stop talking or meeting their friend will never work. Spend quality time together doing activities they enjoy so that don’t miss the company of that friend. This can create a safe space for them to open up.

3. Encourage positive peer relationships:

Introduce them to new activities or groups where they can meet positive influences. Sports, dance, or volunteering can be great options.
Arrange casual meetups with families of children who have a positive influence on your teen.

4. Set clear boundaries and expectations:

Clearly define acceptable and unacceptable behaviors and the consequences of crossing these boundaries. Be consistent in enforcing rules while being flexible enough to understand their social needs.

5. Seek professional help if needed:

Many times parents are not in a position to tackle complicated matters. If the situation is severe, don’t hesitate to seek guidance from a counselor or therapist who specializes in adolescent behavior.

6. Monitor and support:

Keep an eye on their activities without being overly intrusive. Use technology mindfully to ensure their safety. Offer support and reassurance as they navigate the challenges of distancing themselves from negative influences.

Remember breaking away from bad company is a delicate process. Stay calm have patience, be understanding, and proactive. You have to help your teen make better choices while

Author: Farida Dahee is a Coach for teens and founder of Sculpting Beautiful Minds